Ok, this is one possible solution to the puzzle.
Preliminaries:
Create an Intangible Tunnel to the cook
ReVi 25 (Intangible Tunnel, D:Diam, can cast effects up to level 25)
Tell the cook you would avail yourself of her services. Ask her if she can be ready for the summons in a few minutes. Assuming a positive answer, tell her that when she is ready she should grab two armfuls of straw, go alone to a quiet place to where you have (or she can procure) an Arcane Connection, drop the straw to the floor, stand on it and wait.
InMe 25 (Base 15 "Speak with any one human", +1 Touch, +1 Conc)
After a few minutes:
Create in front of you an armful of straw
CrHe 4 ("Base 2 Create a processed plant product, like a finished plank of wood.", +1 Touch, +1 Diam)
Create an Intangible Tunnel to the cook
ReVi 25 (Intangible Tunnel, D:Diam, can cast effects up to level 25)
Get a view of what's going on, and make sure everything seems in good order
InCo(Im) 15 (Eye of the sage, R:Touch, D:Diam)
Ask the cook if she's ready, and tell her to relax
InMe 25 (Base 15 "Speak with any one human", +1 Touch, +1 Conc)
Make sure the cook won't fall even when she falls asleep.
ReCo 20 (Lifting the Dangling Puppet, R:Touch, D:Sun).
Put the cook to sleep (so she won't get startled by the experience and/or move around)
ReMe 5 (Call to slumber, but with R:Touch)
Turn the sleeping cook into a sleeping kitten
MuCo(An) 20 (Base 10 "Transform the target into a land animal", +1 Touch, +1 Diam)
Remember to add requisites for what she's wearing 
Turn the sleeping kitten into a kitten made of clay
MuAn(Te) 25 (Base 15 "Change an animal into a non-living item", +1 Touch + 1 Diam)
Turn the clay kitten into a little kitten-shaped cloud of blue air
MuTe(Au) 20 (Base 10 "Change dirt into a slightly unnatural liquid or gas", +1 Touch + 1 Diam).
Turn the kitten-cloud into a little fire, that burns the straw and nothing else (Rego requisite)
MuAu(Re,Ig) 15 (Base 4 "Transform an amount of air into another element (fire, earth, or water)", +1 Touch, +1 Diam + 1 Rego).
This is where the straw comes into play. A fire needs fuel, or it will go out. In principle, you could use just D:Mom, as you only need the cook in fire-form for the next round. Also, you could keep the fire in kitten shape adding one ("slightly unnatural") or at most two magnitudes ("very unnatural")
Summon the fiery cook to the straw in front of your feet
ReIg 25 (Base 3, "Instantly transport a fire up to 5 paces, +5 extend range to anywhere you have an Arcane Connection to (see TME, p.107), +1 Touch)
Turn the fire back into the kitten-cloud (you never know with fire ...)
PeVi 25 (Unravel the Fabric of Ignem, R:Touch)
Let the remaining shapeshifting spells expire on their own over the next minute or so.
As soon as the cook has resumed her human form, wake her up
ReMe 10 (Snap of Awakening)
And finally dispel the ReCo that was holding her
PeVi 25 (Unravel the Fabric of Corpus)
Essentially the same steps allow you to send the cook back.
The two key observations to solve the puzzle were:
a) it's much easier to instantly transport a fire than a person.
b) it's much easier to change a human into a fire by changing a human into other stuff, and other stuff into a fire. This general principle (it might be easier to change X to Y and Y to Z rather than X directly to Z) is crucial to playing a Hermetic shapeshifter to the hilt.