This is true for most Virtues and Flaws.
Puissant vs. Affinity.
Book Learner vs. Independent Study.
Tough vs. Venus Blessing.
You should just go with your saga, or maybe the most "vanilla" saga you can imagine.
Actually, I feel this thread has drifted enough from its original question that I am making another , hopefully more ... focused and just "better" thanks to the discussions above!